they r gonna ruin my daughters party

[mandy31]

Hey my daughter turns 1 on a sat and we r throwin a party 4 her and her father who just turned 21.my problem is every1 is trying to invite ppl who i dont know and r under age and wanna drink i have already told the cops bout the party becoz of all the gate crashing in the area.Im a really shy person and hate confronting ppl but i dont wanna be the 1 to get in trouble by the cops. my friend even invited her mum i have never meet the woman and my sister in law invited her bf who i also have never meet and they wanna stay the night help plez how do i tell them with out comin of as a *****:) any advice would help

[OM]

Huh, I am confused ppl are gate crashing a 1st b'day?????

[Shanaynay]

Maybe it would be a good idea to hold seperate 1st and 21st birthday parties, so the 1st birthday can stay safe and friendly :)

[AquaDevil78]

Maybe it would be a good idea to hold seperate 1st and 21st birthday parties, so the 1st birthday can stay safe and friendly :)

Exactly what i was going to say.

I doubt you would want your Daughter around a rowdy bunch of 21 +/- year olds anyway.. even if there Birthdays are the same day.

They can celebrate during the day together, but have the partys seperate. :yes:

[Noah_and_Elijah]

I agree with phineas about having them seperate. Having all of those people there for a 1st birthday doesn't sound like a very good idea. :no:

[mandy31]

there is only family at her party during the day then it turns into hes 21st later that night thats when all the friends and that will turn up

[DivinelySophistimicated]

Well then its not your daughters party, its his! Tell all the older people not to come until later in the evening that way your daughters party will be over!

[~Emmylou~]

I agree with phineas about having them seperate. Having all of those people there for a 1st birthday doesn't sound like a very good idea. :no:

:yes:
A 21st birthday party and a baby's 1st birthday party are two VERY different events.

If there is a risk of your DD's party being ruined I would hold it another day altogether. She is only one, and she' s not going to know any different if you move it.

I'd be ropeable if drunk yobbo's crashed my babies 1st birthday party, I'd seriously be changing the day.

[javalava]

So is your daughter going elsewhere while this 21st is on??

[TinyStar]

I think I'd go out for the 21st instead, have a nice party at home for the 1st, let birthday baby have a nap, then go out for dinner/whatever for the 21st.

You take bub home and the party animals can do whatever, far far away from you and your bub.

[Jeclipse]

I think I'd go out for the 21st instead, have a nice party at home for the 1st, let birthday baby have a nap, then go out for dinner/whatever for the 21st.

You take bub home and the party animals can do whatever, far far away from you and your bub.

I agree!:yes:

[Milliner]

Hmmm I wouldn't be having them on the same day let alone the same venue.

[erin94]

I STRONGLY AGREE WITH MOST OTHER MOTHERS, Don't have you partners b'day the same as a 21St are you kidding, that is just asking for trouble. Please Change the dates your child will no, no difference. To only be 21 again would be great though..

[Lila]

i´d just move the 21. to another venue.
either a pub, club, park, whatever....
so no gatecrashing ect....
you go home whenever you feel like it- no sleepovers in your house necessary :thumbsup:

[mandy31]

thank u all 4 the advice when my partner got home from work we talked and changed hes party to the weekend after and we r goin out 4 tea instead of having it at home so thank u all so much:thumbsup: :hugs:

[tigerchick]

Hope it all worked out well happy birthday partys are hard work and you did not need other people stressing you hope you have a nice dinner happybirthday to you DD &DP 21&1 both big events enjoy.

[~Alicia]

That's great Mandy. Hope you have a great time at both parties. :D

[~mia&ryan~]

Happy birthday to Paige for yesterday, I hope her party went well!! I am glad you guys came to a decision you were both happy with..

[mandy31]

:hugs: hey all thank you all so much well paiges party was great she had so much fun and dinner was great 2 went to the pub and every1 luved it thank you all 4 the advice it helped alot and i had no1 sleep over thank god lol :yelclap: :yelclap:

[tyler's mum]

Put your foot down and kick them out:thumbsup: Its your daughter special day. Dont let anyone wreck it

[tyler's mum]

Put your foot down and kick them out:thumbsup: Its your daughter special day. Dont let anyone wreck it

Umm sorry should have read the hole thread:rolleyes:

Glad everything worked out good