I want to smack her

[Shanaynay]

I am SO FREAKING FRUSTRATED!!! :banghead:
I have never smacked DD but I just have this urge to whack her :mad: She has been screaming since 5pm, she won't eat her dinner, won't have a bath, screams when I dress her, I need to go to the toilet FFS and I just want a FREAKING SHOWER :banghead: There's no point in even trying, she'll just crawl in after me and get completely saturated. If she nejoyed bloody showers, I'd take her in with me. But she doesn't.
I am so goddamn frustrated. AAAAAARGRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Someone please tell me they feel like me :gloomy:

[hayleysmummy]

YEP I know exactly how you feel DD 10 months has been whinging all god damn day It gets to me something cronic sometimes and I just want to give her one hard smack to let my anger out (I never would though)It's just how I feel I honestly wish babies/children had an off or mute button sometimes just for a couple of hours or maybe 2 or 3 or 4 :laughing:
:hugs: to you I hope she stops soon

[Myztik]

:hugs: I have days like that too.. I rang my mum on saturday and got her to come over just so I could have a shower :rolleyes:

[Chub Chub]

Yep for sure:thumbsdown: You are definately not alone.

:hugs: can you chuck her in bed early?

[Melissa1983]

I DO!!!

For the past 2 weeks my girls have been asboulty feral. I don't know whats going on with them. As soon as i pick them up from Daycare DD2 starts screaming, and won't stop until she goes to bed. DD1 just picks on her, and won't listen to anything i am saying. :banghead:

I think it is because we are moving soon and they are picking up that i am stressed. But i am really to lose it with them..:crying:

I keep telling myself 1 and a bit weeks to DH is home. (been gone for 3 months).. i am locking myself in our bedroom and he can have the kids all day...

[jaimie]

I hear ya sister!
My croupy 2yr old is awake and carrying on despite having Phenergan!:eek: What more will it take to get her asleep!
But seriously it sucks when they whinge,whinge,whinge...
Have you got anyone to take over while you at least have a shower?

[nats]

I hear you :yes:

Do you have neighbours? YOu need to get out and let out a blood curdling scream, get it all out. Then cover it up with some pretend yoddeling :o

[KarniF00l]

Yep, I had a day like this with DD2. Though I didn't want to whack her, I wanted to yell and scream or run away. Lucky DH works from home or I would have done so.

She was in a foul mood all day, wouldn't eat her lunch or dinner, kept throwing it on the floor, threw major tanties, sat and cried on the floor like a spoilt brat and now I'm hearing her throwing her blankets out of her cot. No matter what we did to try and occupy her today, she wouldn't have a bar of it. We even took her to MILS which she usually loves. I swear she was possessed by the devil at some point today, she's not normally like this.

It looks like there's a fair few of us who had 'that' sort of a day today. I'm kinda glad I wasn't alone. Don't feel bad for having the urge to smack her, at least you didn't follow through with it. Lets all hope that tomorrow is a better day!! :hugs:

[TwoBlue]

Boy oh boy do I know how you feel ..

Massive :hugs: mate.. the way you are feeling is so normal.. you are just human after all... :hugs:

My DS Ethan is driving me beyond bonkers at the moment.... :hair:

Dont feel bad just keep coming here and venting.. it helps :D

[lukaelmo]

Cripes, sometimes Luka starts in the morning, and then it's "nuuuuhh" all day... drives me absolutely bonkers.

Can you give her to someone for a bit?

[MrsTwith3]

Yep I feel like this nearly every single day. My kids are feral!!!!!! DS1 stirs the cr@p out of DS2 till he crys and wont be let down. I try to be calm and explain to DS1 its not on to hurt or annoy your baby brother and all I get from him is "why?" then he proceeds to go and hurt him again.
Grrrrrrr:banghead: . Your not alone Z. Come and vent away whenever you need to.

[Shanaynay]

Do you have neighbours? YOu need to get out and let out a blood curdling scream, get it all out. Then cover it up with some pretend yoddeling

I can't yodel :crying: :laughing:

Thanks for the replies guys.
She just kept screaming and screaming, when I put her down she would claw at my leg like a wild animal, so I took her to bed and layed down with her (I'd tried to put her to bed earlier but she just screamed for me whenever I left the room), then she fell asleep, but whenever I'd move she'd wake up again :banghead:
So I stayed there and eventually I fell asleep too which was a good thing I spose because I was tired and cranky too :o

Didn't end up getting a shower though, I probably stink. I have piece and quite right now but it's too cold for a shower... brrrr.....

[Chub Chub]

I can't yodel :crying: :laughing:

Thanks for the replies guys.
She just kept screaming and screaming, when I put her down she would claw at my leg like a wild animal, so I took her to bed and layed down with her (I'd tried to put her to bed earlier but she just screamed for me whenever I left the room), then she fell asleep, but whenever I'd move she'd wake up again :banghead:
So I stayed there and eventually I fell asleep too which was a good thing I spose because I was tired and cranky too :o

Didn't end up getting a shower though, I probably stink. I have piece and quite right now but it's too cold for a shower... brrrr.....

Phin.....glad she eventually settled albeit attached to you. Couls she be coming down with something? My DD is like an extra appendage and I get soooo frustrated with her and then a few days later she shows signs of illness and massive motherguilt occurs. Just a thought?

[Rainbowbrite]

Oh hun, we ALL have times like that :hugs:

I'm just glad my neighbours weren't home yesterday, I must have sounded like a maniac :o

[Shanaynay]

god it is happening again. 5pm right on cue. have to type one handed, wont let me put her down. aaarrgghhh:banghead: im in for another 3 hrs of hell i think :gloomy:

[Lila]

i´d say put her to bed....
5pm is my bubbies bedtime.....
:thumbsup:

[Shanaynay]

i wish i could, but she wont, as soon as i get up she jsut wakes up and starts screaming :gloomy: i'd go to bed with her if i didn't have to giver dd1 her dinner and bath her and stuff. and dogs to feed :ecomcity:

[Nowhere]

i know how you feel, im so over holding my 16 month old when i go for a wee, she is actualy sat on my lap now as i type been here about 5 minutes and i think my time is up lol