anyone else not preventing?

[borntobemummy]

We are not using contraception and not actively TTC either, just letting it happen when it does. Is there anyone else out there crazy enough to be doing the same thing?

[blessedmummy]

:no: nope..... unfortunately ......i hope that one day it comes to be for me too.....:fingerscrossed::babydust2:

[mmalt]

I just wanted to say that you are one very brave girl!!! LOL Do you want a close gap between #2 and #3? You must be having a great and easy time with your little one to not be scared to have another one so close 'if' that's what life brings you!! lol

[borntobemummy]

it is pretty scary to think about it, but it is something we have decided on and we are happy to trust God in what happens.

I have had a history of infertility BTW, so that has been an influencing factor too.

[vanillabean]

We are not using contraception and not actively TTC either, just letting it happen when it does. Is there anyone else out there crazy enough to be doing the same thing?

Yep! That would be us. I stopped taking the pill 3 weeks ago and told DH i was never going on it again (terrible migraines). We had talked about the third child.
So right now we are doing the same. No checking CM or counting cycles, just go with the flow and get to know my body again. By the way, I feel 100% better since stopping the pill.:smiliedance:

[borntobemummy]

glad you are feeling better:yes: personally, I really hate the pill, it wrecked me physically, I'm never going near synthetic hormones again:no:

[vanillabean]

Yep, me neither. If we are lucky enough to have a third, it will definitely be the last for us, so we can do something permanent.

[borntobemummy]

have you had your first AF yet?

[littlerayofsunshine]

Hi,
That is me and df to the tee. we werent doing anything to prevent it happening after my m/c in march. If it happened it happened, and now we are expecting in april.
If you dont stress to much about it and bd like normal (few days a week) then its going to happen.

[nats]

I haven't taken the pill sinse DS.

We arent preventing pg from happening either. THough I do want to get pg in either Nov or Dec for a number of reasons-

Chinese calander sais GIRL

Due in getting warm weather (dressing a newborn for the cold would be a pain in the a$$. Then undressing 3 times an hour for nappy change.

More daylight for drying washing

DS's clothes will fit next baby at the appropriate seasons

The baby bonus goes up to $5k after July 08 :smiliedance:



...anyway, I might be pg already. Will test this weekend



BBL :devil6: is up.


Re: Synthetic contraception - I'll be using the billings method to avoid pg when the time comes. It can even be used to concieve a boy or girl if you are observant enough (and patient enough)
The body positively screams at us the terms and conditions of our fertility normally. Why shut it up will pills :thumbsup:

[nats]

...bd like normal (few days a week) then its going to happen.


:laughing: a few days a week... that's funny, bd more than once a week LOL :(

[ikis84]

ooh nats, how exciting!

[HugsAndKisses]

yep we are also just letting things happen as they do....we want another child but we arent rushing it...although i may be already:fingerscrossed: :babydust2: hehehe

also just a question? how much is the baby bonus at the moment? we are going to use the money to help pay off some of our car as we already have lots of baby stuff for when #2 decides to arrive?

[borntobemummy]

nats, I totally agree with you re; the billings method, that's what we use too:thumbsup: it really works!!

Nats, have your AF come back yet? mine haven't as DS is fully BF, so I never know if I am or not, might need to get some cheap tests. Last time I got AF once when DD was 11 months, then BANG :bfp:

oh, and the baby bonus is currently $4k, but will go up to $5k next July:yes:

[vanillabean]

have you had your first AF yet?

No I haven't yet. If I count 28 days, it should be due on Sat I think-but who knows if it will turn up then. After being on the pill it can be so irregular anyway.

[nats]

Nats, have your AF come back yet?

No, no af's. Just some dodgey, ambiguous bleeding. Not even spotting just spot LOL

I'm testing this weekend but hoping for a BFP goes against my reasoning..... fate will decide - Oooooooo :cool:

[Bel1978]

YES YES exactly us... Sienna is 3 months tomorrow... and we want another soon...

I was given the all clear at our 6 weeks check up and i was told i wasnt aloud on the pill or Depo for medical reasons... i didnt know that

Our baby bonus just paid for medical bills as we have a lot of them

[Ange&Seth]

No not yet - but that's what we'll be doing soon.

IUD comes out on the 4th October and whatever happens after that, well............. happens :D

[nats]

Oh Well, no BFP for me (Tested today) Just aswell too! :)

[cmd'smum]

it is pretty scary to think about it, but it is something we have decided on and we are happy to trust God in what happens.

I have had a history of infertility BTW, so that has been an influencing factor too.

I know how that feels BBM! Good luck, hope you get sent another miracle soon!:hugs:

[mogsy79]

i wasnt on the pill we wanted more children but it was a case of when it happens it happens. i was off the pill a month and wella im :bfp: three months and two days :smiliedance:

[borntobemummy]

well...here's an update (http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/showthread.php?t=112987), we'll see what happens from here...very exciting indeed:smiliedance: