Sorry Chelle !!!!!!!!!!

[reAllytee]

Im afraid i think i just topped your sh!tty day !
Not to say it wasnt a horrible day for you but yeah here goes .....

My partner had sms'd while we were at the club & said he had news but boy had i know it was what it was i wouldve come straight home !

Got home to find out next week is booked with physio & scans :confused:
Ok i knew about physio but scans wth ?!?!?!?!?
So he sat me down & said the following :

" Well you know how you noticed my shoulder sagging the other day well the physio picked it up from the moment i walked in & started checking everything out. He has now found besides the loss of reflexes that has been happening slowly but surely that im losing all muscle control etc on my left side etc. "

So here is me freaking out enough by that to me told ....

" I then had to go straight to the doctors after the physio where he advised this was not a good sign & he could only see one thing causing this .... Multiple Sclerosis !!!!!!!!!!!!! So i now have to go have brains scans besides the nuclear bone scan next week to work out whats going on "

OH MY GOD ! :(

Ive been crying ever since & im still shaking at the thought of it while typing this & want to be sick :(

I swear if this has all come on from his work stuffing us around & this could have been caught sooner & he had treatment etc im so going to sue that company & take them for all they have !!!!!!!! :mad:

Like we need this on top of his other dramas.
I just want to curl up in a ball & hope it all goes away.
So sorry Chelle i think my day worked out a little sh!ttier in some ways to yours !

[Pixie]

Err yes this is a little different, we should never ever compare our crappy days with others as it's all relevant to each one of us.

I am really sorry to hear about your partner and the chance that he could have MS..I can't imagine how upsetting it must be, the good thing is that something is being done about it treatment wise, then the next stage is wheater or not his work is responsible, if they are you are going to have a pretty good case on your hands.

I hope everything goes well for him and yourself and you get some answers

[reAllytee]

Err yes this is a little different, we should never ever compare our crappy days with others as it's all relevant to each one of us.


Wasnt trying to compare :confused:

Anyways i think i need a break from this site !
Met some lovely girls today but im rather over a lot of things atm !

[dormouse]

I'm sorry, I have no advice or anything.

I just wanted to send you some big {{{HUGS}}}

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Good luck with the tests next week!

[maybe1more]

Im so sorry to hear that, how deverstating it must be for you, i hope to god that its not ms, i pray the brain and bone scans come up clear, thinking of you and your family.

[Rainbowbrite]

I'm so sorry to hear that. Goodluck :)

RB

[DB&O]

Hi,
I wish there was really great advice I could give you but as I don't have any, I just want to say that our thoughts & prayers are with you & we'll all be here for support, when & if you need it.
Brooke.

[WeThree]

oh Ally, Im so so sorry :( To be starting out as a young couple with a new baby is hard enough, but to have all the problems you and dh have, and now this........
dont leave us though, you are going to need an outlet that is just yours and people to support you more than ever, i know your inlaws arent much good for that sort of thing, and i dont know if you have alot of other people around you, so stick with us and we will try and see you through this :o
If you dont mind, i would love to pray for you, dh and your little man :)
xxxx

[lukaelmo]

Don't leave Ally, I don't want to be an ali nigel :(

[brooke]

ally please dont leave! We need you here!
I am so sorry to hear about your situation! I hope it all works out!

[Miaow]

Sorry to hear that:( I have a couple of friends on the net that have MS and I know what it can do to people - Hopefully its something else that isnt as bad. Hard going through all the stress and worry till you find out:(

[Lunar]

Oh Ally, you poor chicken!
I really don't know what to say other than I have my fingers crossed for you and DP and will keep you in my prayers.
I wish him luck with all the test and really hope that something can be done to improve it. Just keep your chin up and stay strong for that little man, he would be feeling the stress too so try to stay positive for all of you.

((((((((((((((((((BIG hugs)))))))))))))))))))))

[Pixie]

I didn't mean it like that ah well must of come across as wrong over the net I am sorry :(

Just trying to say we all have bad days and we can't help it.

sorry again

[rynosmum]

I knew what you meant DM, I think it may have been taken the wrong way.:(

Allyoo, Lots of hugs to you and Hubby. This must be such a horribly stressful time for you. Stick together, stay positive and love each other. I hope there is some light at the end of the tunnel - you guys deserve it.;)

[claireandbailey]

hey ally,

It was great to meet you today and i hope everythin goes well wit ur partner. and just remember to keep ur chin up and be strong especially for Harrison bcos he knows wen ur down.

Big Hugs
Claire xxx

[reAllytee]

Thanks for your support everyone i really appreciate it.
DM - I know it wasnt meant badly was just being over sensitive at the time & just over reacted IYKWIM. Im sorry if i have now upset you :(

Just going to sort of step back a bit this week & not spend so much time on here which at least doesnt allow me to over react when its uncalled for as well as calming down over a few things in general.

Im hoping we get some answers this week or im going to really kick up a fuss thats for sure !
I have done as my partner asked all this time trying to stay calm & rely on the doctors who are just trying to do their job.
But ive had enough i refuse to let the insurance company sit back & make us wait while he gets worse yeah maybe he doesnt have MS but geees something must be horribly wrong for him to be losing muscle control. Plus the fact his back is screwed tells me yeah he sorta needs all the scans they keep refusing etc.
Anyways we are now just paying for them ourselves & if we have more trouble well we will have to start legal proceedings.
I just now feel guilty over spending approx $500 over the last few months getting Harry his pocket nappies when we dont have much money & are now going to be paying at least $3000 for one of the scans DP will be having this week.
*sigh*
If im not feeling guilty over being a bad mother then its always something else isnt it ?! :rolleyes:
Oh wells this is life right ?
What doesnt kill us makes us stronger !
Thanks again everyone :)

[pegasus]

Hi Ally

Just wanted to add some support for you. It's been some really tough times that you've been sharing with us over the last few weeks. I hope you get some answers for your hubby and that the family situation starts looking up.

((hugs)) to you - take care of yourself and your family, take the time you need and let us know how things are in your own time.