i sorta have a boyfriend

[the_original_duchess]

some of you know this already, but im sorta seeing someone. its all in good fun, and he knows where i stand on not being in a serious relationship anytime soon.
i made sure i layed everything out on the table when he first asked me to only see him exclusivly, and then told him about what happened with the last guy, M, and him saying that dreaded L word way way way to soon.
so anyway, his name is shaun, and he is someone who i was friends with. and we started going out on a few dates,a nd we are seeing how things go. like i said i dont want anything serious atm, but i like being around him, and i like the fact that im comfortable around him with my trackies on lol.
i think thats what was so good about being friends with him first. dating is hard, altho i havent actually had trouble with finding anyone to date over the last couple of months lol.
but yeah, its nice.
btw he is a really great kisser lol.
Danielle

[Ange&Seth]

:yelclap: Good for you Danielle!! :hugs:

[Bumble]

good to hear your happy mate :smiliedance:

[OneBabyBoy]

:smiliedance:
Yay!!!
:D
Fantastic news! :)

[BreakfastatTiffanys]

Congratulations:smiliedance: :yelclap: :smiliedance: :yelclap:

[Dooce83]

Thats great!! You really deserve it... and you've gotta love being able to be in your trackies!! :smiliedance:

[SalTheGal]

Good for you, have fun!!! :)

[Elfin]

Good on you Danielle, you so deserve a bit of happiness. I say go for it:)

[MissBrightside]

Thats great Danielle! Where Do you find all these guys? I might have to come and hang out with you for awhile! :laughing:

[Gumby]

Hey Danieel. That sounds great. We done :yelclap:

[the_original_duchess]

Thats great Danielle! Where Do you find all these guys? I might have to come and hang out with you for awhile! :laughing:

lava life and mounties (the local club) you'd bre surprized at home many nice single men there are out there.. and they always seem to come knocking when you arent really even looking.
plus im a bit of a hottie if i must say so myself (and totally modest too) hahaha.
nah i think its coz i have confidence. thats what shaun says he likes best about me, that and the fact thathe knows i wont take cr@p from ppl, and if he screwed with me, i'd kick his ***. (and he likes my butt too lol)

[Snuffys Mum]

Yay Danielle! Very exciting! Good luck with it all.

My new man sees me in my trackies all the time too :laughing: . Gotta love being that comfortable hey?

[the_original_duchess]

ok so today i am delleriously(sp?) happy. shaun came round last night and we spent the entire night talking (and kissing). i love the start of relationships, they are wonderful.
i thought that i would have done what i ahve always done and backed away as soon as someone was getting too close, coz thats what i do. but no, i havent. im sooo looking forward to spending time together with him, and seeing where this will lead to. im hoping that it is gonna lead to something more serious later on, way down the track. isnt that weird hearingthis from me. soon as anything serious comes along i usually just make a run for it.
but nope, not this time. im just happy sitting at me computer, sharing how happy i am with my friends,with a goofy smile plastered on my face.

[Dooce83]

ok so today i am delleriously(sp?) happy. shaun came round last night and we spent the entire night talking (and kissing). i love the start of relationships, they are wonderful.
i thought that i would have done what i ahve always done and backed away as soon as someone was getting too close, coz thats what i do. but no, i havent. im sooo looking forward to spending time together with him, and seeing where this will lead to. im hoping that it is gonna lead to something more serious later on, way down the track. isnt that weird hearingthis from me. soon as anything serious comes along i usually just make a run for it.
but nope, not this time. im just happy sitting at me computer, sharing how happy i am with my friends,with a goofy smile plastered on my face.

I think its probably easier for you because you already know him, you are already close to him, whereas the other guys were trying to get too close before they even knew you!! Its the right way around this time :thumbsup:

[mum2littleman]

yay for u thats great news:yelclap:

[Mummaof2]

Danielle,

Its good to hear that you are happy.

I have been following your posts since you separated from your ex and I hope this isnt going to sound to rude but you seemed very upset when your ex first left you yet you have moved on so quickly and have already met a few guys have you thought about the affect this could be having on your children especially your new born.

I have been separated from my husband for 6mths now and although I have met a few guys online from rsvp I havnt met any of them yet in person as I dont need my children getting confused right now. Im not sure if these men you have met have met your children but i definatetly know that no man that comes into my life will be meeting my children until i know the times is right.

[SweetSerenity]

Danielle,

Its good to hear that you are happy.

I have been following your posts since you separated from your ex and I hope this isnt going to sound to rude but you seemed very upset when your ex first left you yet you have moved on so quickly and have already met a few guys have you thought about the affect this could be having on your children especially your new born.

I have been separated from my husband for 6mths now and although I have met a few guys online from rsvp I havnt met any of them yet as I dont need my children getting confused about there being another man in there life right now. Im not sure if these men you have met have met your children but i definatetly know that no man that comes into my life will be meeting my children until i know the times is right.


I'm sorry but I have the same concerns.

I am happy that you're finally happy Danielle, but I think you need to learn to be happy first without needing attention of the opposite sex. You're children need to see that mummy can be happy with just having them in her life and I don't think two months after Grant leaving you is enough time for you to be emotionally stabe as a single mother....

Only you know what's best for you, but Im with Mummaof2, it does concern me a little as I know for a fact, you can not be emotionally ready to be with someone new after only 2months of separation, giving birth to your third child and adjusting to being a single parent of 3...

I'm not try to attack in anyway, just know from experience, men will not make you happy for the long run, only you can do that.:hugs:

[the_original_duchess]

they are only ever introduced as friends, never anything more. no kissing or holding hands infront of the kids, and no sleep overs.
as far as the kids are concerned shaun is just one of my friends and nothing more until i know if it is serious or not.
i have other amle friends that are only friends and the kids see them exactly the same as they so shaun.

[Mummaof2]

Thats a good thing Danielle....i hope you didnt take offence to any of what i said

[the_original_duchess]

no no ofence taken at all. it was probably the exact same advice i would have given to someone in the same situation