amyt878
20-07-2007, 16:02
Hi Everyone,
I thought I would share my story wth everyone.
I have kind of become anti social and want to try and re connect and let myself have therapy in writing my story.
I have a 4 yr old son named Hayden. I had my daughter in 2005. We named her Madison and this is our story...
I went into the hospital to be induced with my daughter in Sept 2005. After a pretty normal induction,she was born. Within a couple mins she stopped breathing. They resucitated her and took her to the Newborn Care Centre for observation. The next morning they did some tests and said she had Pulmonary Hypertension. They explained it was just her shunts in her lungs that needed to shut more and they would keep her under oxygen so that could happen. So, for the next 5 days we came in everyday and were unable to touch her as she was under lights.
We went home one day and were called and told she had had a seizure and stopped breathing. We rushed in and they put her into a more monitored care. The next day they did more tests and just could not figure out why she was deteriorating and her organs were failing and shutting down. After a long few days they were pretty sure it was related to her hormones and did a MRI to prove the theory. Basically she was born WITHOUT a pituitary gland at all!!! Its just a fluke one in 3 million type thing. We were told she would need replacements for life... ie Thyroxine, Hydrocortisone and Growth Hormone. She was finally released from hospital 3.5 months later.
It has been a long road of sickness, hospital visits and just a new appreciation for life.
We have also discovered she has Septo Optic Dysplasia (under developed eye nerves) and developmental delay. She is at about a 8 month level and she is nearly 2.
I have had to stop working and be at home as I just didnt trust her at a daycare since she has Cortisol issues. It is life threatening.
I know most people do not understand the lingo, but all parents with children who are disabled are a lot more similar then we think. We all feel the same feelings for our children and want the best for them.
The hardest part with Maddy is not knowing her potential in future and no one can tell us. The services provided are pretty limited and the waitl lists are pretty long. Its not a great system.
Look forward to talking to you all....:)
I thought I would share my story wth everyone.
I have kind of become anti social and want to try and re connect and let myself have therapy in writing my story.
I have a 4 yr old son named Hayden. I had my daughter in 2005. We named her Madison and this is our story...
I went into the hospital to be induced with my daughter in Sept 2005. After a pretty normal induction,she was born. Within a couple mins she stopped breathing. They resucitated her and took her to the Newborn Care Centre for observation. The next morning they did some tests and said she had Pulmonary Hypertension. They explained it was just her shunts in her lungs that needed to shut more and they would keep her under oxygen so that could happen. So, for the next 5 days we came in everyday and were unable to touch her as she was under lights.
We went home one day and were called and told she had had a seizure and stopped breathing. We rushed in and they put her into a more monitored care. The next day they did more tests and just could not figure out why she was deteriorating and her organs were failing and shutting down. After a long few days they were pretty sure it was related to her hormones and did a MRI to prove the theory. Basically she was born WITHOUT a pituitary gland at all!!! Its just a fluke one in 3 million type thing. We were told she would need replacements for life... ie Thyroxine, Hydrocortisone and Growth Hormone. She was finally released from hospital 3.5 months later.
It has been a long road of sickness, hospital visits and just a new appreciation for life.
We have also discovered she has Septo Optic Dysplasia (under developed eye nerves) and developmental delay. She is at about a 8 month level and she is nearly 2.
I have had to stop working and be at home as I just didnt trust her at a daycare since she has Cortisol issues. It is life threatening.
I know most people do not understand the lingo, but all parents with children who are disabled are a lot more similar then we think. We all feel the same feelings for our children and want the best for them.
The hardest part with Maddy is not knowing her potential in future and no one can tell us. The services provided are pretty limited and the waitl lists are pretty long. Its not a great system.
Look forward to talking to you all....:)