seeking for an egg donor

[littlestart]

not being able to have my own baby is an extreme accident to my life, particularly when I was born in the Asian family. I have been keeping this secrete for years, except my husband since it is a shame for the whole family and my life will be a hell if they know that I am not able to produce. I am now looking for IVF but could not ask any help from my relatives and friends since this issue is extremely strange to them.

any advices will be invaluable gifts to me, particularly for those who are happy to donate their eggs. You all don't know that all your helps would give me another life. I am looking forward to hearing from you soon
I am living in Brisbane-Queensland. Should you contact me at mymatnai@yahoo.com

[cqfamily]

Good luck, Littlestart. The cultural issues you raise are very interesting, I had not thought about them before. Good luck with finding a donor.

[littlestart]

many thanks for your encouragement, Cqfamily. Hopefully my dream will some true

[Cassiecat]

Hi
I am so sorry for your difficulties.Most people with infertility keep it to themselves so you are not alone there .If you have not had a medical check up and started with an IVF clinic you should definately start there(I have been in this process for about 7 years and would be happy to chat re what ever stage you are at) .If your clinic is suggesting egg donation then you need to advertise governed by the rules in your state.I have found that most people are much more sympathetic than you think but appreciate that your cultural background may make it even more difficult.
Please feel free to e-mail me at rcatb@hotmail.com
Sorry for rambling e-mail but just wanted to reply quickly my heart goes out to you and i send a big hug from all the fellow suffers
Cath

[littlestart]

thank you for your hugs, cassiecat. I couldn't image how many people are out there with the same problem until I join the Bub Hub. I am trying my bests.

[lily1]

I think many of us (myself included) are unable to share our infertility with others, lucky for us there are forums such as this that allow us to seek support and encouragement. Good luck with your journey.:)

[Stephany]

Littlestart, I understand how you feel, and agree with Cassiecat and Lily, I personally feel that the forums provide the strength and support you need in your journey. I know too well that the forums have helped me a great deal.
Be strong and you have all the support from the wonderful ladies and your dream will come true :wizard:

Love
stephanie

[Tracie64]

Hi Littlestart

Welcome to Bubhub darl. It must be hard not
being able to talk especially to your relatives.
I work mainly with Asian people and although
I am not asian I understand your need to keep
things quiet.

But know there are many girls on this site in the same boat as you and we are hear for
you if you ever wanna ask questions or just chat.

I have found a possible donor on this site and
wish you the same luck.:fingerscrossed:

Take care and have a good week

Tracie64:hugs: