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FourAngelKisses
12-07-2007, 08:21
Jacob will be 10 in a couple of months and I know that I should have the body changes talk with him.
When did you do it and what did you say to them? Would be easier if his dad did it, at least he knows what sort of changes happen, lmao.

blessedmummy
14-07-2007, 09:08
i know my kids have like 8yrs or so till i have to have "the talk" i spose it would be good for dad to give the boys the talk as he would know i spose, anyhow, hope that it goes ok and they dont freak out too much, im scared now and ive got like 8yrs or so to go! :o

warriorPRINCESSdaughter
13-08-2007, 18:09
hi i am single with five kids aged 19 down to 11, my three boys are the oldest and i alway talked to them in day to day life about things like, start wearing deodorant now as when you get hair under your arms they will smell. and that would trigger off other questions from them. about 8 or 9 is a good age. i think that talking to them daily about things will give them that sense of trust that they can come and discuss other issues with you its all about good communication practices while their still young enough that they dont think that they know everything lol

Lirael
13-08-2007, 18:10
i know my kids have like 8yrs or so till i have to have "the talk" i spose it would be good for dad to give the boys the talk as he would know i spose, anyhow, hope that it goes ok and they dont freak out too much, im scared now and ive got like 8yrs or so to go! :o

you will probably have to start earlier than that, girls these days are maturing earlier, I would say about 9 years old+ so maybe four years til you have the talk lol