Just Miscarried

[naget]

Hi,

I'm not really sure what i really wanted to get out of posting this but i think i need to vent.

This morning i woke up a felt a little "heavier' than normal. To start off i just bled lightly but now i'm bleeding heavily and have really awful abdominal cramps. I was 8 weeks. I guess it is a fact of life.

The thing that gets me is that this pregnancy was an accident and it has taken me a while to get used to the idea that there might be a baby. Now i know that is not going to happen, i'm not sure how i feel. I'm a little upset that i let myself get worked up. :(

i think i'm going to sign off here, cuz i'm not sure what i'm getting at. sorry. thanks for listening to my vent.

[EmsMum72]

I'm so sorry for your loss tvsmilely :hugs: . It's a really awful thing what you're going through and I guess you probably feel a bit numb, seeing as the pregnancy was an 'accident', doesn't mean you won't feel sad for what could have been. Take it easy, give yourself time to feel whatever emotions you're feeling, and venting (whether it be to your DP or on here) is a great way of healing. There are many women here who have experienced miscarriage, and I'm sure would be available to offer you support whenever you need it (including me) :yes: .

[Zeal]

:hugs: For you. Take it easy :hugs:

[our little treasures]

All I have is hugs I will never know how your feeling:hugs: I hope you take it easy and spend time on yourself:hugs:

[Tam-I-Am]

Oh, lovey :( I'm so sorry. What a hard time you must be going through right now.

I guess one of the biggest things that you may be feeling is guilt - like if you'd just wanted the baby more you could have stopped the miscarriage? Please don't torture yourself if you ARE feeling that way - because there is nothing that you could have done to prevent what happened :hugs:

You can't wish yourself pregnant when you're not, and you can't wish yourself not when you are.

Please take care of yourself - and when you're ready to talk, we'll be here waiting :hugs:

[rynosmum]

As the others have stated so well, many of us have been through miscarriage one or more times and we are here to chat, understand or simply listen.

Feel free to write whatever you're feeling, sometimes it really helps to write it all down.

For the moment though, heat packs and painkillers if you need them ad the Dr if you need as well.

I'm so sorry for your loss.:hugs:

[naget]

Thanks everyone :o I feel a little better this morning. Thank you for your kindness.

Everything happens for a reason right? so it possibly is a good thing that bubba didn't stick. I'm not sure that this is how things really are but everyone needs to believe in something, and this is what makes me feel best for now. :yes:

[M O P]

I just want to send you some
:hugs: :hugs: